10 ten tips for long lasting relationships

     

     10 ten tips for long-lasting relationships

So many relationships have to crumble simply because of some little mistakes that most time people show less or no interest in addressing in their private life (love affair). Have seen people say this, he doesn’t deserve me or she doesn’t deserve me or maybe we are not meant to be together a lot of things you can’t imagine. You will always experience crash in your relationship if you don’t look closely at this. No relationship ever fell apart due to both partners ever-loving themself too much. Well if you have been in and out of countless relationship or having problems in your present relationship worry no more, here are the most important things you should avoid for your relationship to work.
10 Ways To Make You Long Term Relationship Work

1  Good Communication

2 Been Unfaithful

3 Don’t Be The Always Demanding Type

4 Avoid Lies

5 Never Compare Your Partner With Another

6 Not Been Caring

7 Not Been Proud Of Your Partner

8 Lack Of Respect For Each Order

9 Been An Ingrate Or Not Showing Appreciation

10 Avoid Anything That May Course Quarrel And Ensure Peace At All Time

Lack Of Good Communication.

                Intimacy isn’t always about sex only, but enjoying being in each other’s company. Communication is one of the key factor of every  good relationship you see around you today, so many people lack good communication between each order. Fine you talk to each other, the question here is that what do you people talk about, and how often do you talk to each order and also the tune and matter which you talk to your partner. Having a problem with what I just stated early surely your relationship will not yield any good result .sometimes maybe you will run out of what to say, simple why not gossip(yes gossip), don’t miss understood me when I say you should gossip, well its simple, gossiping doesn’t simply mean talking bad about people behind their back, you talk about other  people maybe their relationship life or probably their lifestyle, that person might be a close friend, family, or even someone you are not friends with, by doing so you might just realize what you lack or what you need to keep your relationship by simply talking about people's love affair. Above remember it fun talking(gossiping) about people .

Been Unfaithful

Cheating in a relationship is now seeing as a normal thing that people do, some call it fun while orders call it a game but trust me it isn’t all that you think that is. So many unions have to crumble simply because of this so-called game (flirting) people find pleasure in playing. If you have gotten a person who truly believes in you then you better be grateful to that person and love him or her. Sometimes people give silly excuses why they cheat or why they are not faithful, well you can’t justify the act of cheating simply because you see what orders possess and your partner doesn’t. the best way to settle this is to inform him/her of what you want, common this is filling we are talking about hear beside is your partner.

Don’t Be The Always Demanding Type

                This specifically goes to ladies,( am sorry if am being sentimental here but trust me that the truth) most men don’t like that, am not saying that is not good for a man to provide for his woman, but it shouldn’t be   a hubby to the woman to keep all responsibility on her man, trust me that will chase him away. Some women have gotten so familiar with demanding something at every giving opportunity they get to meet with their man which is wrong. One good quality every man will love to see in his woman is being able to sort out some of her problem without bordering him, and even when he tries given her an helping hand she rejects it. That gives him more courage and to love you more.

 Avoid Lies

                Some people are fond of telling lies for some reasons  which result in reducing the  amount of trust your partner has for you, sure sometimes you lie just to save your relationship or marriage as the case may be, but do not make it a habit because it will definitely bounce back when you least expect. Most importantly you should know this for sure when a person lies he/she need another lie to cover for the previous one so why start it at the first place or at the beginning. Yes telling the truth might course or sometimes worsen the situation or better still be difficult to say but looking at it from the order side it best to tell your partner the truth, It helps to easily settle whatever the issue might be simply because the truth is already out or has been said.

Never Compare Your Partner With Another

Comparison has become another key factor in every failed relationship it has to contribute negatively to a relationship which would have grown and yield a very good result. Never you compare your lover (husband/wife) to another, your partner is not getting it right or maybe you admire something from another person’s love life the best way to fix it, it never comparison. Think of another way to fix the situation or why not mold him or her to your very own taste, yes it can work provided there is love in the midst of you both, you can only do that by talking to your partner mind due not aggressive and also be rest assured to apply wisdom and above all be patient because it might take a while before it work.

   Not Been Caring

Some people find it had to show that they care simply because of some selfish reason well it very wrong. In every relationship, the word CARE plays a very big and positive roll in building and nurturing the love and affection between two lovers. Always show interest and care in whatever that has to do with your partner live, most of all be observant and conscious of your partner's mood. Each time you notice changes ask a question and as well look for the best solution to resolve whatever problem it might be.

Not Been Proud Of Your Partner

Why getting into or having an affair with someone you can’t talk about, can’t be proud off, then it better and best not to go into the relationship with such person because you might end up hurting that person or even yourself in the process. When you love a person I see no reason why you shouldn’t be proud off that person, speak about that person. Not being proud of your partner brings division in relationship.

Lack Of Respect For Each Order

Your relationship or love life will definitely crumble if it lacks respect. yes, this respect of a thing is not only directed to women only but to both parties (men and women). In as much as men want respect from women so do women deserve respect from men as well? When both parties don’t have respect for each order definitely their union will not last or even yield good results. Putting your partner first in everything you do is another way to show your respect for him/her.

  Been An Ingrate Or Not Showing Appreciation

Learn to say thank you to him/her even when you don’t like what it is you are saying thank you for. Been an ingrate and not being appreciative kills love and affection between two love birds. Stop that habit of complaints before saying thank you, it kills the spirit of your partner. The word THANK YOU is a very strong and important word you should use at a very giving time, it posses the power of nurturing the burning flames of love.

Avoid Anything That Will Course Quarrel And Ensure Peace At All Time

Frequent quarrel and fighting occur when both partners do not understand each other this can be a result of bad communication, rudeness, etc. avoid anything whatsoever that may bring misunderstanding .sometime people find it hard to easily say sorry out of pride and ego. The word SORRY is another magic word that helps soften the heart. E.g. Sometimes when your partner complains of what you did whether intentionally or not, the first word to say is SORRY, before giving excuse or reason for doing such.