6 six things a lady should not do in a relationship

6 six things a lady should not do in a relationship

Ladies are fond of doing so many silly mistakes which at the most time end up breaking there long-lasting relationships, you might think that what you are doing or about to is not a big deal or might seems normal to you but trust me it might be a stumbling block to your long lasted relationship or perhaps marriage as the case may be. To keep your marriage or relationship in a well-shaped and perfect position you must avoid these few things

1. Never compare your man with another man
2. Don’t be too suspicious or always suspecting him
3. Always put him first before you
4. Don’t be quick to anger type
5. Never take a quick decision when you are angry
6. Never you try the faithfulness of your man using another lady

1. Never compare your man with another man

the comparison I must say is one of the fastest and quickest things that can destroy a relationship and am so sorry to say this ‘’it comes mostly from the ladies ‘’ yes the ladies. No man in his right state of mind will take such thing from his woman. When you start comparing him with other men that alone start bringing different diverse thoughts to his mind, be careful of that and stay away from such.

When you compare your man with another it makes him not wanting to be around you, not able to do things to you or even surprise you because he might think you won’t love it of which that will push him out and gradually he will slip off your hand into another woman’s hand, stay away from this for a happy and long-lasting relationship

2. Don’t be too suspicious or always suspecting him

                 

Never be the suspicious type .yes don’t be the always suspicious type, I know you will be wondering why, well because you might end up hurting yourself too, yes yourself. Been to suspicious of your man, inconvenient him and makes him uncomfortable around you because of the suspicious character you exhibit whenever he comes around, which most time attract quarrels, hurtful words follows.

Some ladies feel or think that knowing their man’s daily activities or routing will keep him away from cheating or maybe keep her relationship in a more safer condition well that wrong, hey don’t miss understand my view on this, am not in any way saying you should not know how your man spends his day, what am trying to say is that some ladies are fund of asking repeated questions like where were you, who was that on the phone why dint you call me before you did that or do this there is always a why, why, and why question to ask. Frequent asking of the same question, trust me annoys men a lot

3. Always put your man first before you

Never a bad idea to put your man first before you, yes loud and clear I can say that a thousand and one times if that will make it sink into your brain. Putting your man before you make him fill like a king it makes him happy and feel at home and safe whenever you’re are around knowing fully well that his interest is in a safe hand which is yours. Putting your interest in all that has to do with the both of you will make you look greedy which is through, most ladies think that because they are the women in the relation it means their interest before his, well it never a bad idea to do that but you too should sometimes make his interest com first even when he refuses, it really makes them feel good

4. Don’t be quick to anger type

                    

Never be quick to anger type because anger drives the heart which leads to making a lot of mistakes that you will, in turn, regret your action, so many ladies are the victim of this and to that, a lot of unions have been destroyed by this same action, not all thing that happens you pick offense or get mad at.

Learn to overlook some of his mistakes and remember not every action needs an opposite reaction I mean some action just need to be shut down, when I say shot down I mean it should be overlooked and move on. Yes sometimes it cool to express your fillings but remember to control your ANGER it will really do you good if you as a lady learned that.

5. Never you make quick decisions when you are angry

Making a quick decision when you are angry could be dangerous to your relationship, yes it really dangerous, remember relationships are not a bed of roses so never expect smooth ride all through, there must have to be a rough time where there will be fight, tears and a lot more in most cases it is been caused by the man but doesn’t say it over or quit it so fast.

I always advise you to calm down before you decide when such a thing happens, you could still love each order who know and you get to fix things as two grown adults that you are.

6. Never test your man’s  faithfulness using another woman

Never you in any circumstance test your man using another woman that could be very dangerous, bringing in another woman into the picture is never advisable, men usually fall for that even if he loves you so that shouldn’t be an option at all so stay out of that,