7 seven things a woman should know before getting married

7 seven things a woman should know before getting married
Research has shown that most ladies who have ill-prepared for marriage have a high divorce rate because failure is inevitable when you fail to prepare. Remember marriage is a lifetime union not a cinema where you can walk out when the movie starts becoming less interesting to you

 Confucius, a Chinese teacher and philosopher once said that “success depends upon previous preparation, and without a serious preparation there is bound to be a failure”. for every successful venture, there must be adequate preparation, the same case is applied to a successful and happy marriage, to have a happy marriage you need to do some necessary preparation for it to work. This is because for so many obvious reasons certain issues need to be settled before marriage and you can only do that perfectly well only during your  singlehood because that the perfect time to do so. Below here are those necessary preparations of a bride to be

  Bride to have to be spiritually prepared
  Bride to have to be physically and intellectually prepared
  A bride to have to be financially prepared
 Avoid the habit of borrowing and credit purchase
  Maintaining general hygiene
  Social preparation
  Health preparation

Spiritual preparation:

                yes spiritual preparation is one of the most necessary things a bride to need to put in check before going to the alter sorry if this hurt but that is the truth, an intimate relationship with God is the foundation of all successful endeavors in life as a human including marriage. You need to ask for God direction before going into marriage this can only be done by establishing a cordial relationship between you and God.

Physically and intellectually prepared

So many women are victim of this, yes this, as a bride to be it is very important that you get some form of education be it diploma certificate or even a degree in any institution of her choice and make yourself relevant to the society, your marriage and yourself as well. It is said that education is the easiest way to fight poverty.

                Also, read books written by seasoned Authors ensure you attend marriage seminars because it is very important and really has a great effect too. You should also endeavor to have extra skills such as catering, event planning baking, and tailoring, etc.

                Physical preparation also entails purchasing of important items such as washing machine oven cutleries, blender, juice extractor, etc. depending on your financial status, the man doesn’t have to do all this, by so doing I assure you, your man will have to respect you.

A bride to bee has to be financially stable or prepared
                          

Some women make this grievous mistake of entering into marriage with nothing to hold on to, in most cases they think the man is there to provide for all her need well sorry to say that very wrong. You will be a real helpmeet if you have a source of income to your family no matter how small it is it will definitely be of great impact to the family. Above all, it will make you independent and supportive rather than make you a liability to your spouse.

Avoid the habit of borrowing and credit purchase

It is very common in our society to that ladies find it normal to borrow things from their friends, neighbors and so on, this habit could be very difficult to handle or even break when you get addicted to them even after you are married. Cultivate the habit of saving no matter how little or small your income maybe, but don’t be tightfisted for it not to affect you in any way

Maintaining general hygiene

                      

Another aspect of preparation is maintenance of general hygiene, these are very important as a single lady. Be neat, ensure you always keep your home and surroundings clean .make it a duty to make your bed, Declutter your apartment and surrounding and do order home chores all by yourself as a single lady even if you have a maid that can do it.

                Shun laziness and pride, insist on doing them yourself so that when you get married whether maid or not you can do them all by your own self, for that keeping your environment clean won’t be a big burden to you so you don’t have to look for an extra hand to help you do little things you can do all by yourself, remember to maintain good personal hygiene’s .keep your body, clothes, and hair clean also dress neatly and modestly

Social preparation

The first thing you should know is that we are in a civilized world I mean things are fast changing for that you need to be socialized and move with time. Learn to be socially well adjusted since your going to be dealing with human beings in and outside your home, discover and work on your weakness so that you can be of a cheerful, hospitable, friendly and lovable wife. your ability to interact and communicate with people effectively will also enhance your relationship with people both in public places such as the market, worship centers. Learn communication skills

Health preparation   

Health is wealth; HEALTH is a very vital aspect that everyone has to deal with in his or her daily activity, when you have good health there is bound to enjoy a good life.  Do you know that health is one fundamental  factor that determines a healthy and happy marriage, so many marriage and relationship tend to fail due to the neglection  of this vital factor called HEALTH, while some relationships that have lasted for so long end up not leading to marriage just because of this same HEALTH issues. What exactly do you do if found in this predicament, I know that question will be ringing loud on your head right, but don’t panic because I have few answers to those question. This is what you should do.

First: make sure you know your genotype, blood group and whether you are rhesus positive or negative. You can walk into any well-known and registered hospital to have that test done it is best you know your health status than be an illiterate of your own health.

Secondly: understand your circle as a woman and if you discover any abnormality seek medical attention that is consulting the nearest clinics close to you for immediate correction health is wealth remember.

Thirdly: it is  best advisable to go for at least monthly checkup, on mostly toilet infection checkup or better still be on monthly doses to wash away those bacterial.Ensure all diagnose infection are well treated.

Fourthly: don’t forget to deworm yourself regularly especially before your wedding.

Order aspect of preparation include